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It's up to us as women to look deeper, ignore all the surface distractions (including overwhelming chemistry), and really get to the meat of who this person is and if he wants the same things we do.

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When it came to dating in New York as a 30-something executive in private equity, Dan Rochkind had no problem snagging the city’s most beautiful women.

“I could have [anyone] I wanted,” says Rochkind, now 40 and an Upper East Sider with a muscular build and a full head of hair.

“You can’t help who you fancy but I couldn’t see myself dating someone who was so obsessed because that’s so different to me, and I think it would make me really self-conscious about my own body,” 23-year-old Frankie from Winchester told 24-year old Londoner Maddy agrees: “I wouldn’t want to feel pressure to be as obsessed as they are, and I think it would make me more self-conscious about my body image.” But of course, keeping in shape is important and if someone’s personality is as good as their looks, most people wouldn't complain.

“It’s no bad thing if someone goes to the gym and looks after themselves,” 24-year-old Anna explained to .

Focus for a second, this is important."The most important thing to do is keep your wits about you. So many of us complicate the search for the right guy by giving the wrong guys too many chances.

And just because a man is pursuing you or interested in you doesn't mean he's the right guy for you.

Now, that's not to say that you shouldn't have chemistry. But when you have it from the get-go, it can actually be a hindrance: a strong attraction makes you especially prone to overlooking incompatibilities.

"Chemistry means you're compatible in one room: the bedroom.

“But someone who spends literally all their time in the gym and has no time to see me (and eat unhealthy but delicious food with me), that’s not cool.” Amber, a 23-year-old from Bristol, says it’s sometimes annoying when her fitness-obsessed boyfriend doesn’t want to go out and eat at restaurants she wants to go to: “I made halloumi and butternut squash burgers recently and he insisted on weighing his slice of halloumi to track his calories! Of course for many people, following a healthy diet and fitness regime isn’t about vanity.

But when it comes to finding ‘the one,’ most of us would agree personality is the most important factor.

The men who were judged to be the best-looking had higher rates of divorce.

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